Defense Against the Dark Arts of Influence: Crash Course Business Soft Skills #2

Defense Against the Dark Arts of Influence: Crash Course Business Soft Skills #2


How do con artists manage to scam millions? Why do people choose to follow great leaders,
or horrible ones? How do CEOs get better deals in the boardroom? Influence. It goes by a lot of names. Emotional intelligence. Manipulation. Social skills. Influence is an important tool that drives
business decisions and social interactions. But, like all those Spider-Man reboots have
taught us, with great power comes great responsibility. …Uncle Ben… Influence has a dark side too, and can be
used to pressure people into making some pretty bad decisions. So this is basically our defense against the
dark arts episode. Except instead of Avada Kedavra, we’re going
to fend off some “Influencias Malus” and teach you how to use influence for good. I’m Evelyn from the Internets. And this is Crash Course Business: Soft Skills. [Intro Music Plays] Last time, we talked about the rational reasons
for trusting other people. But you also trust people because of emotional
reasons, like your gut instinct when you first meet them. Sometimes, emotional cues can match up with
cognitive trust. Maybe someone’s giving you really bad vibes,
and when you scroll down their Twitter feed, your suspicions are confirmed! I’m not about to get dragged on Black Twitter with you! Or your gut might be trying to get you out
of a situation that feels dangerous. In the words of My Favorite Murder, if you’re
freaked: Pepper spray first. Apologize later. Then, there’s the flip side. You might feel good about someone who turns
out not to be trustworthy. That smooth-talking ex, for example. Or a quirky professor who was actually hiding
Voldemort on the back of his head the whole time. Influence relies heavily on charisma. If someone’s more likeable, they tend to
be trusted more easily and can influence others. As we’ve seen from the #MeToo movement,
or really anytime a popular person does a horrible thing, having charisma does not
mean someone has good character or is good at their job. Charisma isn’t always nefarious, though. It can be used as a force of good — to help
you make a great first impression or give a persuasive public speech. And it’s not some magical gift that’s
bestowed upon you. Charisma is a skill you can build over time
with the personality traits you’ve got. Tons of factors play a role. But to keep it simple, here are three things
that leading organizational psychologists say can make you more likeable: confidence,
praise, and optimism. [That’s it. Three things. You got this.] Plus, they can also help you think about why
you’re trusting a charismatic person, and whether or not you should. Confidence is the number one way to build
charisma and emotional influence. It makes you seem more relaxed and capable
in high-pressure situations. Capable people aren’t always as confident
as they could be. Maybe you’re shy, or have impostor syndrome
and you’re afraid you don’t belong at your job. Well, we’ve got your back! You deserve to be recognized for your achievements,
and there are ways to make yourself shine. Black Girl Magic. For example, you can avoid uncertain language,
like ‘maybe,’ ‘in my opinion,’ ‘I think’ or ‘I could be wrong.’ Sure, if you’re a journalist trying to separate
your opinion and a citation, these phrases can be helpful. But in business writing, they can make it
seem like you doubt yourself. And if you know it, show it! Simple things like using good posture, projecting
your voice, and making direct eye contact can signal confidence. Some people use power posing. And hey, if striking a pose in the bathroom
mirror pumps you up, keep at it. But there’s no solid proof that this actually
builds confidence. In general, faking it ‘till you make it
is pretty solid advice. But if you aren’t sure what you’re talking
about, you can leave things to experts instead of risking your credibility. All of these tips can also help you analyze
why someone else might seem confident, so you don’t misplace your trust. Leslie Knope was confident. But she also really knew her stuff and had
the policy proposals, experience, and binders to prove it. On the other hand, Bobby Newport had a ton
of rich, white man confidence, but he was full of air. So, avoid being influenced just because someone
acts like they know what they’re doing. Look for cognitive cues like competence, intent,
and integrity too. But charisma isn’t just about confidence. It’s also about how you interact with
other people, which involves way more than just being polite. Praise is a powerful motivator. It’s why seeing a gold star on a report
card feels so good. Sometimes people underestimate the importance
of intrinsic motivators like recognition. And they overestimate extrinsic motivators,
like money or time off. Don’t get me wrong. Equitable pay is a real thing that needs to
happen. None of this “working for exposure or Instagram followers” stuff. You need to put food on the table, and bonus
checks are valuable. But on top of having the time and money to
live comfortably, positive feedback can make sure people feel that their work is valued
throughout the year. Too much praise can make you come across as
fake, though. And watch out for people who only say nice
things when they want a favor — they might seem trustworthy at first glance, but it’s
manipulative. Positive feedback makes others feel good. Optimism can make you feel good, which shows. While no one can be Chris Traeger, trying
to adopt a positive attitude will literally make you more charismatic. This can work wonders for your vibe, your
motivation, and your career. Malcolm Forbes, you know, the guy that published
the fancy business magazine in waiting rooms everywhere, once said “The key to success
is not through achievement, but through enthusiasm.” There are things beyond our control that can
drastically affect optimism, from tough events like the death of a loved one, to mental health
conditions that may require professional treatment. Generally, though, you can become more optimistic
by learning from mistakes in the past, finding things to appreciate in the present, and looking
forward to future opportunities. You know those inspirational posters from
the 90’s? “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why it is called the present.” Really, optimism involves having a balanced
outlook. And sometimes, it’s better to look before
you leap. If someone’s blindly optimistic about a
situation, but you’re not 100%, don’t be afraid to do your own research. Now, charisma is a powerful form of influence
that works even when people don’t know each other very well. But the best way to genuinely build emotional
influence is to form strong relationships based on mutual honesty and respect. So treat your coworkers like humans! Try using people’s names, and pronounce
them correctly. It’s an easy thing to do, and makes a big
impact. And find some common ground with them. Maybe you’re in the same department, in
the same screenwriting class, or share the same fandom. Beyhive, anyone? Mutual pettiness can bring people together,
too. Remember when people were all about Twilight
and whether Bella should end up with Jacob or Edward? There were t-shirts. It was a whole thing. But as we all know from Thanksgiving dinner,
some topics can be touchy, like religion or politics. So be thoughtful about what conversations
you bring into the workplace. So you know how we keep bringing up the light
and dark sides of influence? Well, another huge part of that is how humans
frequently judge things based on looks. Like, you’d probably trust a car from a
fancy dealership more than a vacant lot with a cardboard sign saying “carz 4 sale heer.” So appearances matter. It might seem superficial, but your look contributes
to professionalism, which impacts promotions, job interviews, and acceptance in the workplace. The good news is that you can control big
pieces of your appearance. Do your hair. Brush your teeth. Don’t show up to work in pajamas with pizza
stains from your Stranger Things binge last night. It shows you take your job seriously if you
wear clothing that fits your office and profession. Some businesses have dress codes, uniforms,
or frown upon people wearing something drastically different. So find ways to express yourself that fit
your workplace, like wearing that vintage dress you love, or trying to pull off a polka
dot bow tie. But remember that not all aspects of appearance
are within your control — we have messy biases based on gender, race, or even arbitrary things
like attractiveness. And yeah… a lot of the time, it sucks. You can’t help it if you look eerily similar
to someone’s manipulative ex, or if your resting face is… angry. And sometimes what’s deemed professional
isn’t necessarily fair, like dress code policies on natural hair. So it’s important to recognize what drives
your reasoning for trust. Like, have you put too much trust in the
demure old lady in pink, when really she has a horrible track record and may be entirely
unhinged? To see how all these elements tie together,
let’s go to the Thought Bubble. Bernie Madoff was an incredibly charismatic
and well-liked businessman. He treated his employees like family. He appeared to value loyalty and honesty. Now, he’s known as the ‘Wizard of Lies’. Madoff swindled customers and employees out
of almost 65 billion dollars through one of the most costly and destructive Ponzi schemes
of all time. Ponzi schemes are large-scale investment frauds,
where initial investors contribute money into a fake business. They get quick returns, which lures more investors,
who are all paid out of the same pot. It works for a while, until the pot runs out
and everything crumbles. Madoff’s entire persona was crafted to inspire
confidence. He had a well-manicured look, tailored suits,
and high-end watches. And he seemed likeable, competent, and dependable. So some very knowledgeable investors trusted
Madoff, despite seemingly impossible returns. Which just goes to show that anyone can
be susceptible to emotional influence. That’s why it’s so important in business
— and everywhere else — to think about why you’re trusting someone. Just because someone has the latest ferrari
and a custom suit, it doesn’t mean they’re not a snake oil salesman. Pause for a second when a confident and optimistic
person seems like they’re selling you something that’s way too good be true. If it feels like they’re glossing over key
parts of their business model, trust your gut and ask questions. And if they start using flattery to distract
you while you’re questioning them, maybe reconsider who you’re dealing with. Remember cognitive trust? Check their qualifications. See if they have good intent and a history
of delivering on their promises. That way, you can put the puzzle pieces together
to make a more complete picture of their character, and protect yourself from influential but
shady people. Thanks, Thought Bubble! Together, your actions, attitude, and appearance
can affect how others see you and the influence you have in the workplace and beyond. So take time to think about the way you’re
being perceived by others, and always use your influence wisely. Don’t make anyone do something they’ll
regret later. Of everything we talked about, remember these
key takeaways: Influence should be used responsibly, and
you can use cognitive trust and emotional cues to protect yourself from people who abuse
it. You can up your charisma by acting confident,
praising others, and being optimistic. Finding common ground is the foundation of
relationships and can increase your trustworthiness. Appearances do matter. Now that we’ve covered the foundations of
building trust and influence, we can tackle the power of communication. Next time, we’ll look at written work and
making sure you’re sending the right message. Crash Course Business is sponsored by Google,
and it’s made with the help of all these nice people and Thought Cafe is our amazing
animation team. Crash Course is a Complexly production. If you wanna keep imagining the world complexly
with us, you can check out some of our other channels like Nature League, with host Brit
Garner as she explores life on Earth and asks questions that inspire us to marvel at all
things wild. Also, if you’d like to keep Crash Course
free for everybody, forever, you can support the series at Patreon; a crowdfunding platform
that allows you to support the content you love. Thank you to all of our patrons for making
Crash Course possible with their continued support.

Dereck Turner

100 thoughts on “Defense Against the Dark Arts of Influence: Crash Course Business Soft Skills #2

  1. John Matthias says:

    I have resting 'that guy who treated you badly in high school' face.
    I didn't mind Madoff inasmuch as he swindled the rich, -which is why he's in jail. So many people just like him swindled the middle-class and didn't spend a minute in jail.

  2. Brad Wilson says:

    Stopped watching at the "white guy" slur.

  3. Edward Chan says:

    Madoff = Grinderwald, Elizabeth Holmes = Voldemort?

  4. Nicholas Nino says:

    An inspirational episode that helps me cover my personal weak points.

  5. Daniel Argueta says:

    Theo Von made me very aware of the "dark arts." I'm seeing him live in San Jose, CA this Saturday. Gang-gang!

    Seriously though he's gaining a lot of influence and another YouTube channel covered how he's so charismatic. Anyways I love this series. Thank you so much!

  6. BryycePlayyz says:

    Yo what's up

  7. Omar Abdelkader says:

    Made a whole series about how data can be taken and manipulated.

    Sponsored By Google

  8. mon2gy4 34 says:

    Is she being racist? 3:04 (black magic) 4:09 (white man confidence full of ..). Personality characteristics should not be compared to color right? i mean i don't want to act hypocrite with good values.

  9. Alejandro Gangotena says:

    wow, why the heck did we get racial now?

  10. OnePieceNation says:

    I like Harry Potter too, but read another book.

  11. Barry William Teske says:

    Resting face is…angry.
    Here I was thinking my mirror was broken.

  12. M Va says:

    This is a really awesome Crash Course series and as an aside, Evelyn has the most gorgeous hair!!!!! Amazing!!!!!

  13. I May Have Miscalculated - says:

    Was with you up until the blatant racism.

  14. Krof Gninut says:

    "White man confidence". I am positive it was not a compliment, given it was used to describe the negative in the example.

  15. TNT Tiger says:

    All the race jokes make me uncomfortable tbh.

  16. James Eisert says:

    Had me until "rich white man confidence". Didn't think this was the place for that kind of talk. Chrisma indeed.

  17. David Velazquez says:

    I thought this was a Harry Potter crash course. Of the dark arts come on !!! :/

  18. Dogie the Dog says:

    Lets admit it, we all laughed a bit when she said, "fake it untill you make it"

  19. Akiva Weil says:

    STOP with the political AGENDAS and just teach us the INFORMATION PLEASE!

  20. Sydnee says:

    Can you make a CrashCourse video about Freemasons and Freemasonry 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 pleaseee

  21. YEET YEET says:

    Crash course, I thought you were better than this. This woman made me very uncomfortable. I don't get what anyone's race or identity politics has to do with a business course, it's extremely out of place. The actual business information is good but girl you lost me entirely when I'd had enough of your thinly veiled hateful comments and racist jokes.

  22. culwin says:

    It very much depends on your audience. Some people are the opposite to what you might think, and distrust people with charisma. And what is charismatic to one group, isn't to another.

  23. rissa206 says:

    Great advice for newbies in the job market.😊

  24. Emil Larsen says:

    "White man confidence" ? Aw, come on CrashCourse, I really do believe you're above this, and always have been. Maybe tone down the movie trope jokes/references a bit?

    I'm fairly confident you can teach business skills without making race or gender a pivot-point.

  25. shinchan the best says:

    2141 liker!

  26. minevira says:

    you dont want to teach Defense Against the Dark Arts that position is cursed

  27. noam hason says:

    this crash curse is gold, thank you!

  28. Elsa says:

    Soft skills is AMAZING. One my new fave Crash Course series! So refreshing to hear anything around business not being filled with jargon

  29. Arief Rakhman says:

    How about another culture? Easterners may influenced more with collectivism.. looking to people's eyes and showing confidence may backfire.. 🤔

  30. Run Devil Run says:

    This is os very good

  31. J. Renard says:

    as a black man, civil servant, veteran, and future entrepreneur, please know that my next few sentences are rooted in discipline and professionalism, not in negative bias:

    if you allow another video in this series that features anything else along the lines of “Black-Girl Magic”, “White-Man (anything)”, etc., i’m going to report this video and any others like it. this sort of speech is FAR from work-place appropriate. hopefully one of the videos in this series will focus HEAVILY on professionalism. step your game up, CrashCourse 😠

  32. The LAN Cave says:

    Between Parks & Rec, Harry Potter and Metal Gear Solid, I'm pretty sure we share fandoms.

  33. Thiago Peixoto says:

    You are awesome! Great videoo

  34. Jewels Okike says:

    I need clarity ASAP

  35. Kaylee Dork says:

    I like her! She's hilarious!

  36. Shahriar Iftekhar says:

    please make a course on international law, ethics,human rights

  37. Harm Aouke Haaijer says:

    Haha, great series! Love all the popculture-references!

  38. Deje Robi says:

    Thank you. Thank you and thank you🙏

  39. Dallas Smith says:

    PLEASE DONT BE RACIST TO SNAIKS. WHY SAY "SNAKE OIL BUSINESSMAN" WHY NOT "PANDA OIL"? hmmmmmm
    IKR. BECAUSE WE A PANDA LOVING SOCIETY. PANDA CAN GO KISS MY ARSE. OK

  40. Jessica Stevens says:

    As a woman with natural hair, things that hit me were the mention of 'white man confidence' and 'dress code policy on natural hair'. Great episode. Loving this series so far

  41. Paul Oliver C. says:

    Nice shade on the "white guy"; why the hate?
    .
    Seriously

  42. soronoc says:

    Another well delivered video. I particularly like how you handled the into human biases like attractiveness etc.

  43. Devree Bee says:

    I just love this woman!

  44. Евгений Цымбал says:

    Awful speaker… 👎🏻👎🏻

  45. Евгений Цымбал says:

    So irritating….👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻

  46. James Runyon says:

    Lol @ "resting angry face"

  47. anaphysik says:

    2:13 "And [charisma]'s not some magical gift that's bestowed upon you."
    This is a stealth pun, btw. The word "charisma" derives from Greek, roughly meaning "gift" (as in ancient Greek society it was indeed viewed as a supernatural gift).

  48. MarceloOmegaAGDM says:

    You are right. It's not my fault I look like a white person with confidence… even if you just used white man confidence in a derogatory way.

    Love your stuff, it's really helpful. My suggestion is that you put those "against man or white male" comments out of it.

  49. Tueem Syhu says:

    GREAT VIDEO!😁

  50. Noe Horowitz says:

    Is it that hard to have an educational video that teaches and doesn't push an agenda. (Ex: white man confidence)

  51. Em Guevara says:

    You’re very funny 🙂

  52. Polynerdeia says:

    Bey hive hell yeah

  53. Adam ham says:

    i love you!!! you're sooo funny!!! =D thanks for making this!

  54. Miguel Sánchez says:

    That Bobby Newport "white rich man confidence" comment definitely talked much more about you than about Bobby Newport.

  55. Tilly Driver says:

    That MFM reference had me shook omg ILY STAY SEXYYY

  56. ianna41 says:

    great episode. Any chance Crash Course can make a video about "Tokenism"?

  57. Nena Anudokem says:

    So true. But we can all make a huge difference. It's all depends.

  58. PTheCarrotMaster says:

    this girl has some jeckel and hyde situation going on and… i dunno it feels put of place

  59. I am the Cat Human says:

    ‘Will LITERALLY make you more charismatic’.

    I love you.

  60. Amici Nybråten says:

    It depends upon your audience though, this "Confidence – Praising – Optimistic" can in the wrong crowd and in the wrong culture be treated as "Arrogant – Asslicking – Out of Touch With Reality". For instance, the Japanese have a business culture based on humility, where the first two at least may be misinterpreted. Here in Norway meanwhile we can be a very sceptic people, so it's important to show nuance and balance, or even if you're going all in then do so with self-awareness about yourself and how "ridiculous" you may sound. We're historically and in general a people unimpressed by charismatic figures, due to strong traditions of individualism.

  61. mglouise97 says:

    Loving that subtle reference to Michelle Obama 🙌🙌🙌

  62. Raina Ramsay says:

    I love how much this rendition of the Crash Course theme sounds like a video game from the 90s

  63. Julia Prohaska says:

    I really like her, she's a great host

  64. Tate Santana says:

    Uhh im liking the show but too much political stuff fjfj please just talk about business

  65. Ghastly Gibbus says:

    I like these, well done!

  66. Cloud says:

    "Rich white man cofidence…"
    Why so racist?

  67. MrPepelongstockings says:

    Thanks! I didn't know race was so important in a free market but I'll definitely be on the lookout. It takes someone of integrity to denounce an entire race and gatekeep confidence based on skin color. Just wait til the negotiations video where you learn you can only ask for a raise if you're a woman or non-white person. Blatant racism from a biased and untrustworthy group. Be better.

  68. Conner Fields says:

    Why is some of this stuff so hard for me? I have such a hard time with this.

  69. Conner Fields says:

    I know so many people (mostly older, white, and yes…poorer, or with a history of poverty that simply do not think about politics not bringing up politics at all).

  70. Mx Moe says:

    Such a great course; I’m on a re-watch of it. CrashCourse and Evelyn are such an ideal partnership!

    Very clear that some of the commenters spend very little time on the internet/outside of their homes.

  71. What ever says:

    "uncle Ben" – loled so hard, spit on my monitor

  72. Epic Bass says:

    10:33 “who’s there?”

  73. Andy Linares says:

    Crash Course cooking with Andrew Rea from Binging with Babish? just a thought

  74. Max Mustermann says:

    "Rich white man confidence" seems a little racist. It's like saying "poor black man penis size" or something.

  75. Ytlgematuu Zz says:

    Amazing

  76. A fairly inaccurate dinosaur picture says:

    4:10 – Please stop make assumptions linking personallity to skin color, like "white man confidence", it just helps to built a racist mindset overall and don't serve any propose for the overall video.

  77. X1nightstorm9 says:

    Charisma actually works in social seduction. I have come to find out that the the vision you give others like a church leader actually stirs things. The complete honesty in your vision that you share with others has to be true and the key is actually the way you describe the vision and voice is key. It’s actually great for an amazing first impression.

  78. joseafalvel says:

    anyone has some tips to increase confidence when you have aspergers??

  79. eu static says:

    Crash Course: How willful ignorance makes you money

  80. jim sapp says:

    too racist for my taste, bye.

  81. Onyedikachi Okechukwu-Onyenekwu Uzor says:

    Any other science nerds stressing out about the different usage of "negative feedback"?

  82. Jhon Doe says:

    if you want to build on your charisma, you should then head over to Charisma On Command on YouTube

  83. Elijah O'Dell says:

    I love the Parks and Recs references. You are so great at doing these videos. I am really looking forward to the rest of this course 👍👍

  84. Joe Rap says:

    just a correction: you can't fend off Avada Kedavra, don't even try. Run and get somewhere safe and apparate away. Grimmuald Place is no longer safe. Good luck

  85. Roman Riesen says:

    Some of the titles of this series sound like banner ads you get on shady news sites…

  86. Julian Robles says:

    lol

  87. Jarrett Benning says:

    You spelled Intelligence with only 1 “L” at the start.

  88. TZE GOH says:

    Faking it till you make it ??? That means lying !

  89. Dimetal1984 says:

    White man confidence? WTF with the racism?

  90. Dennis Reyes says:

    Omg MFM reference

  91. Victor Strategies says:

    3:57 to 4:15 is definitely not intended to create a bias or to serve a certain narrative…right! 😑

  92. Chuck Mun-C says:

    Really!? The "rich white guy" hey- here is a business tip- don't piss off 1/2 your audience by saying something this stupid. Sad, b/c this, aside from that dumb comment, was a fantastic series w/ great points that lot's of folks would benefit from watching..

  93. Froehlig Girlz says:

    "Black girl magic." Heads up, folks, that's no joke.

  94. rvs1 says:

    hell yeah! touchy conversationsssss

  95. Mimi de Seda says:

    Deborah in the pink dress is NOT to be trusted…

  96. Gabor Papp says:

    I love the color of your lipstick

  97. k says:

    Really do enjoy the topics and the delivery of the message. However, I do not appreciate the settle racist side-jokes. You're better than this! Delivery through professional language speaks louder

  98. Tom McMorrow says:

    "If you're freaked, peppery spray first, apologize later"

    Also, get brought up on assault charges later. It is this type of "my comfort trumps yours" nonsense that is why so many of my generation don't make it in business. They certainly won't if they go around a white-shoe finance firm saying things like "Black Girl Magic" or "White Man Confidence". Please, go into your business job and tell someone that. It'll be your last day.

    Get your act together, Crash Course. You're excellent at history and the sciences, but I think you know little of the business world.

  99. xVxFreshxVx says:

    What is "Rich Whiteman Confidence"?

  100. Zaptoid says:

    Did she just say "rich white man confidence"?

    What does that even mean?

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